10 Valentine’s Day Proposals Do’s and Don’ts
When it comes to proposals, they can be the most memorable moment of your life. If you and your significant other are in a place where you’re ready to take the next step, a proposal is bound to happen. However, there are several do’s and don’ts when it comes to proposing. Since Valentine’s day is just around the corner, keep reading to find out what some of those do’s, and don’ts are.
Do have important conversations
When it comes to conversations, there are several that are a must when talking to your significant other. Some may include finances, family planning, prenups, postnups, etc. Not every conversation will be the same with every couple, but it’s important to discuss these topics with your significant other so that you’re both on the same page. While it’s impossible to agree with everything with your significant other, it’s important to note that you both should decide on the crucial topics. With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, it’s essential to at least be on the same page.
Don’t give in to pressure from friends and family
Sometimes, it’s easy to give in to peer pressure, especially when it comes from friends and family. Also, something that may seem like it’s not peer pressure may well turn into peer pressure down the line. When it comes to proposals, the beautiful thing about them is that they’re unique to each couple. They feature unique characteristics that will be remembered for the rest of your lives. If you decide to accept help from family and friends, setting your boundaries to what you will receive as help and what you won’t get is very important. At the end of the day, you know your significant other better than anyone. Not allowing friends or family to pressure you to do something for the proposal is very important.
Do tell your friends and family before posting on social media
If close friends and family find out through social media first instead of you directly, it is quite the bummer. It is up to you who you decide to tell first and how you go about that but finding out on social media first isn’t cool. Each person involved will obviously have different people to tell, and it’s such a fantastic moment to share with those close to you.
Don’t hide the ring in any food
We’ve all seen the main character in a book or movie wanting to propose to their significant other while eating at a restaurant. Usually, this will involve much planning on their part with the restaurant where they want the ring placed. Once that day is here, and they’re sharing a meal, it’s finally time to ask the question. However, the ring is nowhere to be found. Instead, it’s somewhere two tables down, and the conversation between those two people just got really awkward, and one of them bit into the ring.
There are so many ways that this plan could go wrong, so just trust us when we tell you: don’t put the ring in any food.
Do plan in advance to make it memorable
If you’re someone that does minimal planning, but a situation always comes out in your favor, then you’re lucky, and what are your tips?
When it comes to planning when and how to pop the question to your significant other on Valentine’s day, it’s essential to plan it out. There’s obviously no timeline as to when to start planning, but the earlier, the better. This allows you more time to tinker with different things that you may want to try out. There is no right way to propose to your partner, only the unique way you’re able to do it to make it more memorable for both of you.
Don’t propose in a crowded area
It’s important to note that while your proposal can be made anywhere you want, proposing a crowded area takes away from the memorable proposal. This can cause a lot of unwanted eyes on you, and it just gets too crowded. Every couple is different, but sharing the intimate moment of having a proposal between two people and their closest family and friends is essential.
Do make it a romantic and personal proposal
Every couple is unique, and making the proposal as unique and tailored to your union is essential. Making the proposal unique will guarantee it to not only be memorable but super romantic. Having the proposal be on Valentine’s day may be a little cliche, but what better way to do it on one of the most romantic days in our society.
Don’t go overboard with plans
Doing too much is a thing when it comes to proposing. It doesn’t allow for you to really showcase what you’re there to do. One thing clashes with another, and it could ruin the flow you’re trying to have when it comes to your proposal. It’s essential to select an idea and have that be the theme you have for your proposal. If many themes are going on at once, it can be challenging to keep up or know what to pay attention to.
Do try to surprise her with your creativity
Always try to surprise your significant other with your creativity. When the proposal is creative and unique, your partner will more than likely appreciate the thought that went into the proposal and be surprised by the creativity behind it. Adding little details that may seem like a small thing to you may mean the world to her.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help from friends and family
If the family is an integral part of both of your lives, then having them be a part of your proposal will be the best option for you. There is nothing better in the world than seeing your loved ones gathered together to celebrate your union before or after the proposal. If friends also want to be involved in the proposal, there is nothing wrong with asking for help from them. After all, family and friends can also give you ideas on making your proposal be out of this world.
In whatever way you’d want to propose, it is an important milestone for both of you and for your relationship. When done in what is considered to be the most romantic date in our society, it’ll definitely be the most memorable Valentine’s day proposal.